Thursday, 23 February 2012

Tiny Practices

I don't know about you but sometimes I come across an idea that gives me pause to think. A topic that gets a lot of attention these days is that of instant gratification and how we in the developed world are so accustomed to having quick access to information, responses and material goods that we have diminished our ability to wait.



I'm like that. When I first began writing this blog I had just upgraded to high-speed internet from dial-up. Good-bye Dial-up. My expectations quickly adjusted and now I would be hard pressed to be satisfied with dial-up service. Likewise, it was less than 18 months ago that my husband bought me my first digital camera. I sometimes wonder now how I waited weeks (months sometimes) to have my photos developed.



To counter that tendency I like to find tiny ways to delay gratification. It is helpful to remind myself that most of the world doesn't enjoy even a small fraction of the luxury that I do (housing, food, clean water). About a month ago one of the drain pipes from our kitchen sink developed a leak; we decided we'd fix it the following weekend. As an interim solution we would use our dish basin as usual and just empty it into the laundry room sink. It’s surprising but I'm in no hurry to have that drain pipe fixed, I guess I've just grooved a routine and it seems automatic now. It’s a tiny thing but it is a reminder that many people the world over are hauling water every day in buckets.


I usually make my own whole grain bread and on Monday realized that I'd forgotten to buy more yeast. There was enough to make one small loaf. I knew that loaf would last only a few days but decided to wait until next shopping day to buy more yeast. I have to say I miss the bread more than the kitchen sink. There really isn't a substitute for bread, I checked my muffin, loaf and pancake recipes and they have much more fat and sugar than bread does. So I'm waiting for grocery day. What a small thing, I'm not going hungry and my cupboards are full of food. I think the waiting is good for me, so much of the world goes without, and many people are forced to wait with no certainty of when or where the next meal is coming from. May my tiny practices serve to make me more mindful and generous.
Wishing you a mindful day,

Sandra

Friday, 17 February 2012

Athena Fountain Inspired Painting

This is the third painting in a series that was inspired by ancient statues.  Having two figures made this composition more challenging than the previous paintings.  It was interesting to be self-aware and notice how I was trying to avoid working on the sketching part of the process.  I managed to find chores and make phone calls and then a cup of tea..... anything to avoid beginning.  Recognizing when procrastination is the result of fear can be the key to overcoming it.  I told myself, "Just do a little, put on the collage." 


When that dried I talked myself into "Just put on the background." 



With that done I went to my painting group Tuesday and with no way to avoid it, began to measure and sketch.  Slowly this week I walked myself through to completion.
Athena Fountain
24" x 24 "
Mixed Media

It was a good example of how my thinking can really limit me.  And a reminder that I would be wise to regularly examine the self-limiting inner dialogue that runs willy-nilly through my mind.

Thank you for stopping by My Turquoise Kettle Life today.

May you have an inspirational day,

Sandra

Sunday, 12 February 2012

Lack of Self-Assurance - An Obstacle to Simplicity?

In my last post I wrote about how much I was enjoying Richard J. Foster's book, Freedom of Simplicity .Now that I have finished the book I am revisiting some of the ideas he presented and mulling them over.



One of the ideas that I caught my attention was that of self-assurance or as Mr. Foster writes "being comfortable in our own skin" and how a lack of self-assurance is a foundational hindrance to living simply. In my own way I touched on this subject in my post Thinking My Way to Simple Living.



When I accept myself as I am, when I am comfortable in solitude and stillness, when I recognize that my natural unadorned self is sufficient, when I have made peace with my past and have faith and trust about tomorrow, then I can come to the place where simplicity is my most natural response.





If however, I feel shame about who I am, my thoughts, my habits, my body, my past, if I feel that I need to compensate for what I am lacking, then true simplicity will be truly elusive. For when I struggle with these issues my natural response may be to hide, adorn, over-consume, pretend, seek prestige, create illusions or hoard.



All of the time, money and energy I spend on maintaining an "acceptable" self keeps me enslaved to the life I have created to protect and project my image both inward and outward; how exhausting, how unsatisfying and how unnecessary.



When I understand that my flaws, imperfections and material possessions do not define me, or even really limit me (God loves to use the weak and insignificant) then I am free from having to hide behind a false self. And that freedom can result in a life of genuine simplicity. If I don't need to impress you with what I drive or what I wear, then I have the freedom to use my time, energy and money to be a conduit for something positive, for sharing my talents, for helping others, for creating a life that is simply amazing and amazing in its simplicity; a life that leaves me feeling comfortable in my own skin.

Thank you for visiting My Turquoise Kettle Life today,

Wishing you an amazing day,

Sandra

Tuesday, 7 February 2012

Richard J. Foster's Freedom of Simplicity

Have you ever had that most wonderful of experiences when the perfect book comes into your hands at the perfect time? It’s a blessed occasion when that happens. That is exactly how I feel about Richard J. Foster's book, Freedom of Simplicity. On a Saturday afternoon in January my husband and I had scouted out a used book store in Montreal. It had been a bitterly cold day and the warmth of the small shop was most welcomed. I wasn't in the door five minutes before this slim volume seemed to leap out at me.

I began the book last week and having had the good fortune (or so it seemed) to be bed-ridden with a bad cold over the weekend I was able to read to my heart's content. So smitten am I with Foster's presentation of the topic of simplicity, that I have been both devouring the book's pages and dreading it being finished. He deals with the subject in all of its complexity, building a strong spiritual foundation for the practice and then proceeds to provide counsel on its practical application; all the while fully sensitive and aware of the risks in dealing with the topic. He has shaken up some of my long-held notions causing me to look afresh and to question some of my practices and beliefs.

What is interesting is that I had recently committed myself to a deeper time of prayer and listening to God. I've described it to some as no longer being satisfied with a faded water-colour painting but desiring rather a full colour, vibrant work of art relationship with Jesus. Foster's book speaks to this as well as to the very practical day-to-day application of simplicity.
brightly coloured "rings" of paint from tubes of acrylic paint.

I could so relate to Foster's description of how there was a time when he pushed simplicity of life "indiscriminately" upon people until he realized that simplicity was just another "anxiety-laden burden" on people until they have known first hand God's gracious ability to provide for all their needs.

That I suppose is why some look at simplification and its natural by-product, abundant giving (of money, time, energy), as recklessness. So where does that leave us? Forever divided by a spiritual sea? I wonder. I don't have an answer but I am asking myself a lot of questions.

I haven't finished reading the book yet. It is thought provoking, challenging, exciting and perfectly timed. I love that!

If you have read this or any other of Mr. Foster's books, I'd love to know what you think.

Thank you for visiting My Turquoise Kettle Life today,

May you enjoy a simple day.

Sandra




   

Friday, 3 February 2012

Ancient Statue Inspiration

Continuing on the theme of painting ancient statues, this week I chose a beautiful statue of a seated woman looking over her shoulder.  It is similar in feel to last week's painting where I allowed the background to play an important role within the form.  Again, it is a mixed media painting (acrylic with newsprint collage).

A New Love
24" x 24" acrylic on gallery canvas


The studio is a fun and rewarding place to be when the inspiration is flowing; hours disappear and everything thing else fades away as I try to find a way to allow the painting to reveal itself, without my getting in the way. 

Thank you for stopping  by My Turquoise Kettle Life today.

Wishing you a wonderful day,

Sandra

Saturday, 28 January 2012

Venus de Milo

I've had a lot of fun this week in the studio. One of the challenges that came up two weeks ago in my Tuesday morning painting group was to paint the statue Venus de Milo using acrylic paint and including newspaper collage.


I had a painting on a 30" x 36" gallery canvas that no longer pleased me so I set to work covering up the existing painting and creating a background for "Venus".  I decided to leave a lot of the background to make up the statue adding some darker and lighter areas to give her some form.  I like the loose feeling of this painting and how the subject meshes with the background.



I hauled Venus to the Tuesday morning group last week; no easy task since I walk there and the winds last Tuesday were fierce.  A large format canvas can become quite a challenge on a windy January day! Never-the-less she and I both survived the trek.  Venus even survived the mid-morning "critique" period when everyone gets a chance to put in their two-cents about what the others are painting.  All it all it was a great week.

Thank you for stopping by My Turquoise Kettle Life today.

May you have a simply beautiful day,

Sandra

Friday, 20 January 2012

How to Create a Vision Board

In December (Dec.11, 2011) I promised that I would share with you the process of creating a new vision board. A vision board is a board on which you post images and sometimes words of the life that you are wishing to create for yourself. The basic concept is that by focusing your thoughts/attention on what you desire, you actually manifest those things/situations in your life. We can do this by focusing our thoughts on our goals and desires (think of the book The Secret), by using positive affirmations and by visualizing ourselves in the desired situations. Apparently our brains work well with thoughts and words, but they work amazingly well when given an image to focus on.


This is where the vision board comes in. By creating a collage or board of images of the things that you desire to manifest in your life and by posting this board in a location where you will see it daily (mine hangs over my desk in my home office) you will consciously and subconsciously be absorbing and focusing on the images that you have chosen. This focused attention sets in motion your thoughts which attract these things/situations into your life.



Maybe you're thinking this is some new age hocus pocus exercise. So did I in 2004 when I made my first board. I didn't even know what I wanted in life so I just chose images that were pleasing to me; a mother and her child, a woman doing yoga, some wool, photos of uncluttered interiors, and white fluffy towels along with a few words and quotations that were meaningful to me. The overall feeling of the board was serenity and simplicity.



A year or two later I felt that I needed to create another board, I still loved all of the images on the first one, they still "spoke" to me, yet I realized that everything posted on the board had come to pass, my life now reflected the board. Since then I have created three others, the most recent one having been done a few weeks ago.



This current board is much larger than my previous ones and the images reflect the situations and values that I am currently focusing on, relationships, spirituality, fitness and health, creativity etc.

Here are the basic steps to creating your own vision board:

1. I use a piece of bristol board 22"x26" and tape or glue my images on creating a permanent board (I put the date on the back).

1a. Alternatively you may use a cork board and push-pins which allow you to change and re-arrange your images as you wish.

2. Using magazines or the internet find a clip out images that represent things/situations/values that you want to create in your life. Feel free to include quotes, words etc.

3. I find it best if you don't over-think this image gathering activity. If you find any image "speaks" to you include it in your pile of images. You will evaluate and edit later.

3. Some people like to include bits of ribbon, or small objects that have meaning to them.

4. Once you have a good stack of images to work with (30-50 isn't too extreme), find a large area where you can spread out and where people and pets won't be stepping around and over you.

5. Gather your supplies, scissors, board, glue stick, tape, or push-pins.



6. Quickly go through your chosen images and make 3 piles according to how you are feeling about the pictures you have pulled. The no pile, maybe pile and yes pile.

7. Begin to cut or tear images to the size that you want and loosely arrange them on the board, moving and eliminating as you go. Don't rush yourself.

8. When you have a layout that is pleasing to your eye, step back and take another look. Then go through your maybe pile and yes pile and see if there are any images you just "have to have" on the board.

9. If you are using a cork board you can pin down your images/words.

10. If you are gluing you images, I suggest you leave the board in a safe place where it won't be disturbed and come back in a day or two. Take another look, if anything is bothering you or seems for whatever reason out of place remove it and rework the layout. You'll be looking at this board for a while; you don't want anything nagging at you drawing your focus away from the images.

11. When you are sure you like the feel and look of the board, glue down the images and put the date on the back of the board.

12. Hang your new vision board in a place that you will see it every day, take time to really soak up the images and imagine these things in your own life, picture yourself in those place, doing those activities, being the person whose life is filled with these positive experiences.

If you have any questions about the instructions listed above please e-mail me.

Thank you for stopping by My Turquoise Kettle Life today,

May today be a vision of perfection,

Sandra