When I allow myself to imagine living my best life and being the best version of myself it is useful to begin with what I already have. What are some of my good qualities? What characteristics do others say that they appreciate about me? What have I accomplished that makes me feel thankful, encouraged, inspired?
All too often we focus on what we are lacking. We take our own strengths for granted or fail to see them as strengths. We look at those qualities that we wish we had rather than developing more fully those that we already possess.
No wonder transformation may seem elusive. It is as though we are naturally an apple tree and are disappointed not to be producing bananas!
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| Develop what comes naturally to you |
A more gentle loving way is to recognize your "natural fruit" and begin to be the best version of yourself, rather than a mediocre version of another. When you work from your area of giftedness life has a sweeter flow to it. Development of your talents and strengths is less of an uphill battle.
When I was about five years old I began ballet and tap dance lessons. I probably danced every Saturday until I was ten or eleven years old. I loved the idea of being a dancer but I have very little natural ability. When it comes to dance I am slow to learn and quick to forget. When I tried a Zumba class at my gym it was a humbling reminder of my lack of coordination, grace and rhythm. Thankfully my parents gave me lots of opportunities to explore my abilities and I discovered areas that I excelled in.
In your efforts be gentle on yourself. Think baby steps and small victories. Over time a series of small achievements will result in significant growth that will allow you to constantly evolve into the very best version of yourself.
Thank you for visiting My Turquoise Kettle Life today,
Have a fruitful day,
Sandra
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